Of chances..

Isn't it ironic, that when you meet someone new, and you start liking them, and getting close, you expect them to behave and understand you, like the previous person did. Comparisons are though just inevitable. This happens especially in relationships. Even though you may see someone complaining endlessly about how horrible her ex-boyfriend was, but after sometime or months or year into a new relationship,same person would be wishing how her current boyfriend was like her ex atleast at some point. We start expecting things, even without trying to understand the other person, or even without giving them a chance to know you.
Is it because we are used tob the other person so much, or it generally takes time to adjust to new things. Whatever it is, relationships takes a lot of time, effort, patience, to know a person, to understand, to adjust. When all that comes to an end, all that is just waste, of no use at all. That chapter in life is over, you are never going to study that again.
Is there any point in getting into one?? Answer just varies, sometimes it's a yes, sometimes its no.